THE DRAGUE POST #MeToo YES BUT HOW ?

Single, unsure of himself, he is fully motivated to meet someone. Only when he approaches a woman on a terrace, the latter hides him, while insulting him. After #MeToo, how should men behave ?

The #MeToo phenomenon is beneficial in that it frees the voice of people, often women, who have experienced countless abuses. Many men have become aware of a reality which was invisible to them, having never lived it, neither in the role of the one who imposes a behavior nor in the one who undergoes it. Producer Harvey Weinstein has also been sentenced to 23 years in prison for his behavior towards actresses, but he is appealing.

Freedom to annoy

And yet this phenomenon has consequences for some on the relationships of seduction. How to flirt in these times ?

When e you wish to flirt with a woman or a man, there is almost always a more or less short time during which you nourish a desire without knowing if it is reciprocal. How to express this attraction by actions or by words without hurting the other ?

Because he or she will feel your message and react to it according to their history and according to their conception of seduction.

Self-confidence

The woman you approached, looking back, seems to have reacted defensively and perhaps for nothing. Maybe she went through a lot of unpleasant situations before meeting you. So you have to work on trust, that is to say the ability to believe in yourself, in your qualities and in your skills.

The more positively your meetings are experienced, the more self-confidence will be strengthened. Above all, keep in mind that abuse begins where there is no longer any respect for the other.

But let's admit with Catherine Deneuve, Catherine Millet, Ingrid Caven and the other 97 signatories from the "World" forum that "insistent or clumsy cruising is not a crime, nor gallantry is macho aggression".