HOW TO BEST MANAGE YOUR BREAKUP ?

Sometimes we leave, and sometimes we are left.

How do you end a long-lasting exclusive relationship ?

Do not imagine that it is easy and comfortable even if it is on your own initiative that you break up for other adventures.

Here is the reason for this little piece of writing :

realize that leaving can be as difficult as being left.

Why ?

1° This approach requires first of all courage because how to really explain to the other our departure without hurting him too much. It's not obvious you understand it well unless you tell him the worst nonsense like you have no ambition, you're a phew in the end...

2° You have to work a lot on yourself so as not to contact your ex again asking him to come back when you want something else elsewhere.

3 ° And in addition to wanting to get back in touch, it's risky because yes your relationship can resume but inevitably you will think back to what made you leave during the days of yelling. Always difficult to pick up the pieces in a couple, you must be aware of it.

4° But in the hard times post-breakup, you will have doubts because who to confide in now, who to ask for advice. You will be alone with your problems... and no one will take you in their arms to comfort you.

5° If you have lived for months in a relationship with a person, you will necessarily have lots of memories with him.

Everything reminds us of each other once we have ended our story.

A song, a restaurant, a street name...

So expect to see something spring up anywhere, in your ears, your eyes or under your feet that will remind you of your ex.

6° Getting dumped seems to be more difficult than the opposite. And yet breaking up of your own free will without a common agreement makes you bear a heavy responsibility because you know full well that you will make the other person suffer who did not expect it!

7° It takes time to turn the page and tell yourself that if you made this decision it is not without reasons. And our successive loves build us so that we can know what we really want.